BDSM Terms

Fetish BDSM terms !!

..which is used in the Danish environments !!

  • Abduction Play - Abduction and possibly exploitation and abuse of a person
  • Age Play - Age difference
  • Anal Plug - Sex toys inserted anal / in the numbers
  • Anal Fisting - Take or be taken anal with either the whole hand or arm
  • Anal Sex - Penetrating anal / in numbers
  • Ball Stretcher - Torture instrument that mashes man's testicles
  • BDSM - Bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism
  • Blindfold - Bind to the eyes
  • Branding - The branding
  • Brat - Disobedient girl / woman
  • Breath Control - Breathing Control
  • Bodybag - Body bag
  • Bondage - Stay or be tied
  • Bottom - Submissive / submissive person
  • Bukkake - Get poured with sperm
  • Butt Plug - Sex toys inserted anal / in the numbers
  • C&B / CBT / Cock & Ball Torture - Common term for torture of man's penis and testicles
  • Cage - The man's penis and possibly testicles in cages (chastity)
  • Cross Dresser - Women dress as men and men dress as women
  • Cuckold - Man who gets turned on by the wife's infidelity (also called 'cuckold')
  • Cutter - The dominant cutter in the submissive / submissive
  • Daddy / Daddy Play - Simulate being a person's father
  • Death Play - Where one party pretends to be dead
  • Deep Throat - Woman performing oral sex of penis down her throat
  • Degrader - Humble another person
  • Degradee - Being humiliated by another person
  • Dental Gag - Open mouth gag that allows insertion of penis or other things
  • Diaper Play - Diaper
  • Discipline - Designation for various BDSM games
  • Dildo - The most used sex toy
  • Dogging - Sex outdoors and with the audience on
  • Judgment - The dominant one in the doctor
  • Domina / Dominatrix - Dominant woman
  • D / s - A relationship where one party is dominant and the other party is submissive
  • Dungeon - Dungeon or a furnished room for BDSM / SM use
  • Edge Play - The term for a sexual game where you are a border searcher
  • Electric Sex - Where to apply electric shock to the other party
  • Face Relaxation - Lussinger (Flat Hand)
  • Femdom - Where the woman is the dominant
  • Fetich (French) - Originally French word and means: 'Roots'
  • Fetish (International) - Originally French word and means: 'Roots'
  • Fixation - Tie a person
  • Fire Play - Play with flames / candles / torches
  • Fisting - Take or be taken vaginally or anal with either the entire hand or arm
  • Flogger - A whip type
  • Foot fetish - Sex play with feet / feet / toes
  • Gabestok - Bondage furniture
  • Gag - Sex toys that block mouths
  • Gagging - Vomiting sensation / tears in eyes due to lack of oxygen or discomfort during 'Deep Throat' ing
  • Gas mask - For eg. 'Breath Control', Urine Sex and Outfit
  • Gasping (Hose) - Breathing control
  • Cuckold - Man who gets turned on by the wife's infidelity (also called 'Cuckold')
  • Harness - Harness for straps for body or head
  • Mr. / Mr. - Title of a dominant man
  • Mistress - Title of a dominant woman
  • Human Ashtray - Human ashtray
  • Human Toilet - Human toilet
  • Handcuffs - Steel chains
  • Japanese Bondage - Bondage with rope
  • Kinbaku - Japanese bondage of rope
  • Kink (Slang) - Expression for having a special preference in sex
  • Kinkster - Person who has a special preference in sex
  • Knife Play - Sex toy with knives
  • Choking - Breathing control
  • Chastity - Sex play with coercion and control
  • Lacquer - Shiny black clothing (also called 'PVC')
  • Latex - Rubber clothing and other products
  • Leather - Black shiny clothing (also called 'Leather')
  • Lolita Doll - Inflatable sex doll
  • Lussinger - Beat with flat hand
  • Cuffs - Bondage equipment for the body
  • Masochism (Masochist) - Get hurt
  • Mask - Headwear
  • Master - Title of a dominant man
  • Mistress - Title of a dominant woman
  • Mommy / Mommy Play - Simulate being a person's mother
  • Monogam - Is only for 1/1 ratio and no other
  • Mummification - Tied into tape, gauze, toilet paper, plastic, Wita wrap or other
  • Labeling - Branded or tattooed
  • Needle Play - Sexual with needles
  • Objectification - Person who simulate a thing
  • Masturbation - Sexual self-satisfaction
  • Owner - Own another person. eg. on contract
  • Paddle - SM Leather, wood or metal impact tool
  • Pain End - Person who turns on pain
  • Pegging - Sex with a strap-on summer rule used by women
  • Penis Plug - Sex toys for urethra
  • Pet Play - Behave like an animal / pet
  • Piercing - Signs of submission / are usually carried in the clitoris, penis or nipples
  • Whip - Designation for impact equipment
  • Pleaser - Warned another person
  • Polymourous - Relative to multiple people
  • Pony Play - Behave like a pony / horse
  • Primal - Chase your prey / partner or stranger
  • Rape Play - Rape Play in Sex
  • Role Playing - Play with sex fantasies
  • Rope - Used for bondage
  • Rigger - Person who binds / fixes others
  • Rimming - Oral stimulation of the anus / ring muscle
  • Rope Bunny - Tied up in rope
  • Sadism - Be evil or inflict pain on others
  • Sadomasochism - Dominating others or even being dominated
  • Scarfing - Get strangled
  • Scat - Activity involving own or other person's bowel movement
  • Sensation Play - Sex play with senses
  • Sex Doll - Silicone sex doll
  • Shemale - Transgender person
  • Shibari - Japanese bondage with rope
  • Sire - Title of a dominant man
  • Slave - Title of a submissive / submissive person
  • Slave Contract - Ownership in Sex / BDSM
  • Spandex - Material for making clothes (a bit like 'Wetlook')
  • Spanking - Punishing a person
  • Cane - Percussion tool made of bamboo or rattan wood
  • Candles / Wax - Sex play with burning pain
  • Strap-On - For pegging or lesbian penetration
  • Sub (Slang) - Submissive / submissive person
  • Submissive - Submit
  • Suspension - Bondage where the bottom hangs in rope from a beam or ceiling
  • Swing - Sex swing
  • Swinger - You are for a sex club visit and have sex with other people than your partner
  • Swinging - Attends events in e.g. and swingers club
  • Switch - Person who can be both dominant and submissive / submissive
  • Toilet Sex - Sex involving urine and feces
  • Top (Hose) - Dominant person
  • Torture - Sex play with lots of pain and pain
  • Tattoo - Body drawings
  • Total Enclosure - The term for a fetish about to be completely covered by e.g. latex or white wrap
  • Slut - Title of a submissive / submissive / masochistic woman
  • Uniform - Common name for all kinds of clothes where a role can be played
  • Urinary Sex - Sex involving urine
  • Vacuum - Airtight material that can suck on the body
  • Vacuum Bed - Airtight material (typically latex) which is sucked into the body
  • Vanilla - Vanilla expression sex such as missionary position
  • Vibrator - The most used sex toy with vibration
  • Adult Baby - Behave like a smaller child
  • Voyeurism - Watch or spy on others who undress or are naked
  • Water Boarding - Sex game where you simulate drowning
  • Wax Play - Sex play with burning pain
  • Wetlook - Material for making clothes (a bit like 'Spandex')
  • Humiliation - inflict pain, embarrassment on another person with either coercion or craving
  • Zentai - Suit made of spandex covering the entire body incl. face
  • Open Relationships - Couples who both have other sex partners